The art I was born wearing
Obey Keishing
What is the story behind your birthmark, and what does it mean to you personally?
My birthmark is a port wine stain that has been with me since the day I was born. To me, it isn’t just a mark on my skin; it’s one of the most important things I have. It’s a part of my identity that makes me feel unique and special, and I’ve never seen it as something that needs fixing.
Did your feelings about your birthmark change as you grew older? If so, how?
My feelings have stayed very positive throughout my life. Even when my mom would try to reassure me that "it's okay," I always felt a simple sense of happiness about it. I’ve never really felt the need for it to be any different than it is.
If your birthmark could tell a story about you, what would it say?
If my birthmark could tell a story, it would talk about self-acceptance. It would say that I am someone who is content with myself and that there is a lot of beauty in simply being who you were born to be.
How has having a birthmark influenced the way you see yourself?
Having this birthmark has helped me embrace being a little different. It’s taught me to appreciate the things that make us unique. Instead of seeing it as something to hide, I see it as a natural part of what makes me, me.
Has your birthmark ever affected your confidence or the way you interact with people?
It has actually given me a quiet kind of confidence. It makes me feel special in a gentle way. While I have to navigate some curious questions or "concerned" looks from time to time, it hasn't changed how much I enjoy connecting with others.
What kinds of reactions or comments have you received from others about your birthmark?
I get a mix of reactions. Most people are actually really cool about it—they admire it and tell me it looks awesome. Of course, I get the usual questions about whether it hurts or itches (it doesn’t!). The only part that pisses me off is when people give me "concerning" looks and tell me to remove it, though I know they are usually just worried about health risks like skin diseases.
What do you wish people understood about birthmarks or visible differences?
I wish people knew that having a visible difference isn't always something a person is "struggling" with. Sometimes, we are truly happy with how we look! I’d love for people to see it as a unique feature rather than something that needs to be fixed.
